Where Love Is Illegal

“Married 20 years to a male, I had a child and 2 grandsons, I had no idea I was bisexual until I was divorced.”

“The homophobic behaviors I have experienced in my life have been subtle and over, intentional and unintentional”

“The first time I bought ‘man shoes’ I was terrified to wear them, I think they’re the light blue bowling shoes I have; the first time someone asked me what my pronouns were, I think it might have been @ a BreakOUT! event.”

“Growing up in rural Louisiana is unlike everything in the world – beauty beyond what I can describe. But the culture surrounding me was much different.”

“There is love between Robert and I”

“At times the fight to be who I am now becoming was something that pushed me to the point of suicide. I thought that it was my only way out of the body I knew I didn’t belong in.”

“as a senior gay man not everything is sunshine, many clouds follow me around but thanks to the love and understanding of my parents, my family, and good friends I am able to survive attitudes and situations”

“I haven’t always been a man, and I haven’t always been a woman, but I have always been a pain in the ass.”

“My entire life I’ve felt WRONG! An outsider! I never related to the considered ‘NORM’.”

“our Biggest revenge at A present Day timeline, Is Existing when we’re told Not to.”

“This world has not been kind to me, As I discovered who I was…a Black transwoman.”

“This is a statement that fits Connie and my personal and political activism though Connie became an activist.”

“It was a struggle but as I grew older I had to stand my ground and let them l know I’m not changing this is me accept it or not.”

“I don’t need your permission to exist
I don’t owe you my story
I don’t owe you shit”

“Being who you are is not a choice. You have to choose to not let the indifference and rejection break you. You have to choose that in not being loved that you don’t stop holding space for love.”

“A stranger grabbed me and put a knife to my throat. He said he hates faggots, thank goodness another group of men saw what was happening and got they guys off me.”

“Promise yourself tonight you’ll never give up, and to never leave any stone unturned. You’ve always known your purpose, you’ve always known who you are.”

“Oh my womanhood was forged in the fires of self acceptance, tempered by desire and brought up in a home of love, raised in fear”

“I guess as a child I felt there was something wrong with me. I would have nightmares. I guess I was in hell or would go to hell because deep down I know I was gay.”

“Having to shave a beard before getting my period left me a fairly confused child.”

“What I want to change the most is my body.”

“Paul and I were friends and partners for about 7 years, we were both gay, motorcyclist and traveled around a lot. He traveled in his work & both of traveled together and separately. Chicago, Milwaukee, St Louis, Minneapolis , Indy, Nashville, KC, MO +++ In fall of 1983 he got pneumonia that turned out to … READ THE STORY

“Life is full of sacrifices and the unfortunate reality for many LGBT youth is that they have to sacrifice so many things just to live authentically. For me, I’ve had to sacrifice the love of my father.”

“So many people hated, dislike, talked about and made fun of me, I just thought oh this is it, nothing else today I guess”

“I am more than your expectations
Having to do daily Affirmations”

“We have shared and cared for one another ever since in my vigor muscles bulging I gave my heart and soul to him eternally.”

“My name is Victoria Cruz. Born male, in Guánica, Puerto Rico. Known as Boriquén, before the Europeans came to the Caribbean. My real name was Victor Cruz, one of 11 children. I found out that I was really female at an early age. After the second World War, my father moved to Brooklyn, New York … READ THE STORY

“I’ve been chased down street and mocked and beaten for who I am. It only made me stronger and made me fight for my rights and those of others to exist and live free.”

“After all the excitement I then got my top surgery and It was a memorable moment for me because I wouldn’t have to layer up my clothing anymore and I was able to wear my shirt off and feel more comfortable in my skin.”

“I’m too masculine to lay under a man, but too feminine to top a bitch.”

“Sonja and I have been together for 18 years. We were officially married nine years ago in Toronto, Canada. Over all our families have accepted our relationship.”

“One day, now as an adult, and in charge of my own life, I decided to put on girls clothes and makeup, and go out in the daytime. I had never been so comfortable in my life.”