Manab Tamang / Nepal
“I am Manab Tamang. I live in Kathmandu talking about my journey and sexual identity. I have identifying myself I am gay age of my 12 because I feel good to be with man not with girl but I have so many girl friends. They’re just my good friend.
When I come to Kathmandu in 2003 I try to talk about my sexual identity with my friends but I afraid so I always hide my feeling that make me depressed. So I went to counseling to talk about my sexuality then I tell him about all what is going on my mind that makes me worry and depress then he help me by counseling. That’s help me to convince myself because this time I don’t have mobile phone to check what’s going on about LGBTI movement here in Nepal.
After long time last year 2017 I decide to come out with my sexual identity same that time here in Nepal Gay handsome Nepal pageant was organize by Blue Diamond Society. Then I talk about this program with my Partner then after he really encourage me to participate this program. Then I participate this program finally I am select in top 5 finalist and I won a title Mr. Gay Handsome congeniality. Then I face interview on national fm radio by this interview my other straight friends know about me. I feel lucky they message me and call me to encourage for my work. Now I working in a project as a para social worker. We help to 10 to 24 years old LGBTI communities children and I am also a member of Blue Diamond Society.”